T.Flight Hotas 4 not able to use on arma 3

I read that this flight stick, T.Flight Hotas 4, is the best one for playing Arma 3 when flying helicopters.
I have installed the software and update from their website and got it to work in Windows 10 but even though it shows up on my list in Arma 3, it is not recognized when I try to play it. I can't even get to a page to map it, although I'm not sure I could even if I could find the page. There are no instructions that I can find anywhere that might help find the problem. Although I have found up to a hundred videos on how to map it, they do me no good if I can't get Arma 3 to enable it. I've spent 20 hours trying to figure it out so the Controller is going back to the store if I can't get some help. I have tried almost everything I could find. I read somewhere to "use the share button" but again, I can't even find out what the share and pc and option buttons do. They don't seem to do anything when you click them
Thanks for any help.

Tech Support Guy System Info Utility version 1.0.0.4
OS Version: Microsoft Windows 10 Home, 64 bit
Processor: Intel(R) Core(TM) i3-2120 CPU @ 3.30GHz, Intel64 Family 6 Model 42 Stepping 7
Processor Count: 4
RAM: 5612 Mb
Graphics Card: NVIDIA GeForce GTS 450, 1024 Mb
Hard Drives: C: 905 GB (700 GB Free);
Motherboard: LENOVO, MAHOBAY
Antivirus: Windows Defender, Disabled


Gary D