Code:
var [COLOR=Red]event_embed_add[/COLOR] = $("#video_embed_code_add").val();
var dataString = 'title='+ title + '&video_embed_desc_add='+ video_embed_desc_add + '&video_embed_code_add='+ [COLOR=Red]video_embed_code_add[/COLOR];
Personally, I'd rather give my variables different names from the objects they get their data from, probably something like video_embed_code_add_val because I'm unimaginative like that, but either way it should work if you're consistent in what name you give.